What if the path to peace lies not in the fight, but in surrender?
When we think of survival, we often imagine a battle—a struggle to overcome the odds, to push through obstacles. For many of us, survival mode becomes second nature, a necessary defense against the hardships life throws our way. But what happens when we transition from merely surviving to fully accepting? What does it mean to let go of control and embrace life’s unpredictability through radical acceptance?
When I sat down to pick this month’s topic on “Radical Acceptance: Survival to Surrender,” I was reminded of my own journey. There were times when survival was all I knew—navigating challenges as a mother, healer, and entrepreneur. It was a constant juggle of responsibilities, all while trying to keep my head above water. I was exhausted but determined. That survival mode kept me going, but it also held me back from experiencing true peace.
I learned the power of surrender after a particularly overwhelming period in my life. I was facing so much uncertainty, trying to control every little detail, but nothing seemed to work. It was in that moment of desperation that I realized—maybe it wasn’t about controlling the situation, but about surrendering to it. Radical acceptance isn’t about giving up; it’s about understanding that some things are beyond our control, and that’s okay. It's trusting that there is growth, wisdom, and peace to be found in that surrender.
This shift from survival to surrender became a foundational theme in the life I am co-creating with God. It’s a reflection of the freedom that comes from letting go, from accepting life’s challenges without judgment, and allowing ourselves to feel everything without resistance. This month in our meetup group’s journaling social, each prompt is designed to guide you toward this understanding—moving from a mindset of struggle to one of grace, allowing yourself to be in flow with life.
How to Begin Your Own Journey Toward Radical Acceptance
If you find yourself constantly fighting against the current, feeling the weight of needing to “do more” or “be more,” radical acceptance might be the key to your peace. Here are a few ways you can start incorporating this mindset into your daily life:
- Acknowledge your reality: It’s essential to see things as they are, without judgment. Whether it’s a difficult situation or an emotion you’ve been avoiding, acknowledge it without labeling it as “good” or “bad.” This is the first step toward releasing resistance.
- Practice mindfulness: Staying present is a powerful tool for surrender. When we let go of the need to control the future or dwell on the past, we open ourselves up to the possibilities of the present moment.
- Release judgment: Oftentimes, the hardest part of radical acceptance is letting go of our inner critic. Pay attention to the way you speak to yourself—replace harsh judgments with compassion and curiosity.
- Start small: Surrendering doesn’t have to be a grand act. Begin with small moments—whether it’s letting go of the need to fix someone else’s problems or accepting that some days you won’t have all the answers.
- Seek support: Radical acceptance is a personal journey, but it doesn’t mean you have to go it alone. Sharing your experiences with others, journaling, or even seeking guidance from a trusted mentor can help you navigate this transformative process.
Radical acceptance has been life-changing for me, and I hope that this journal becomes a meaningful tool for you. There is freedom in the surrender—freedom to live fully, embrace who you are, and trust that you are enough.
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If you're looking to explore more on this topic and dive deeper into your journey, my book It's All in Me!: My Journey to Freedom & Living Abundantly is a great place to start. In it, I share personal stories and insights about finding peace through surrender and how you can move from survival mode to truly living abundantly. You can grab your copy HERE.
Take this next step toward your own radical acceptance—what's holding you back from surrendering to a life of peace and purpose?
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